Award-winning gospel artist Selina Boateng has opened up about the often-hidden marital challenges faced by couples in Ghana’s Christian circles, particularly those in ministry.
In an interview on Onua FM on June 11, 2025, Boateng revealed that many Christian couples endure unhappy marriages in silence, fearing public scrutiny and societal judgment.
“If people had the freedom to walk away from their marriages without judgment, divorce cases would rise dramatically. It would be overwhelming to witness,” she stated.
Boateng explained that the perceived stability in Christian marriages is often maintained by the fear of being judged by society and the Church, rather than by mutual fulfillment or enduring love. She highlighted the heavy burden on Christian women, especially those in leadership roles, who feel pressured to present a flawless image despite personal struggles.
“Once you’re married, you can’t even discuss what you’re going through. Even those who encouraged you into marriage won’t be there to support you,” she noted.
The “Alpha and Omega” singer emphasized that these marital challenges impact not only the emotional well-being of Christian leaders but also their spiritual lives and ministerial effectiveness. “If you’re a Christian and your marriage fails, it affects everything—your peace, your ministry, your purpose—especially if you’re a gospel musician.”
Boateng called for greater empathy within religious communities, pointing out that many women face skepticism and blame when they attempt to share their struggles. She believes that many respected Christian figures would admit to regretting their marital choices if given the opportunity.
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“So much is happening behind closed doors. If people were allowed to speak freely, you’d be shocked at how many men of God and gospel musicians would confess to marrying the wrong partner,” she said.
Reflecting on her own experiences, Boateng, who married in 2019 and had her first child in 2022, admitted her marriage has faced challenges. She suggested that, if given a chance, she would approach things differently. In her closing advice, she urged unmarried individuals to avoid rushing into marriage due to societal pressure, encouraging them to take their time and make thoughtful decisions.
SOURCE: PULSE GHANA
